“This is Mr. Sills, and he paints our apartment for us,” the four-year-old girl explained to her friend when they arrived at her home one afternoon. There, in the living room, one of America’s most respected decorators was on his knees with a paintbrush, whitewashing the firebox for better contrast with the cobalt fabric wall behind it.
The child did not misspeak. Stephen Sills is a painter of apartments, in every way that can mean. He has spent his career conjuring illusions like a painter, the kinds of gestures that can transform a gemütlich four-bedroom Park Avenue apartment into something out of another place and time.
This project by Sills is an event precisely because he fills a space with the kinds of things we aren’t used to seeing anymore (except at the estate auctions of rich old ladies) but employs them in a whole new way. Call it New Connoisseurship. I don’t just mean good French antiques of the white-painted Louis XVI school, the easy stuff that Billy and Albert taught us not to fear. I mean the more opulent sophistication of periods like the Régence—the moment between 1715 and 1723 when Louis XV was still a minor and France was ruled by a regency. It takes a sure hand to go shopping for gilt-wood consoles like the pair in this living room, then turn them into an unapologetically modern composition. The best moments of that high style can be seen in the mid-1960s pages of Connaissance des Arts. Today, not so much.
So how did this environment come about for a family with three young children? How did the California-born clients know that Sills could give them what they never knew they wanted—a home full of young energy, but with the repose of old Park Avenue? “We were looking to create a ‘house’ in New York City,” says the wife, who has a background as a professional chef. “I was a total fan and have followed Stephen’s work for years. I might also have been a little intimidated, but when I called, he just said ‘Come on in!’”
Architecture, always essential to any Sills strategy, was executed by Charlotte Worthy, with whom he has collaborated for years. “We have good chemistry, and we both love to explore the barriers between design and architecture,” Worthy says. “We motivate each other, in a way.”
Sills was born in Oklahoma, but his eyes were opened when he lived in Paris while in his 20s. This is where he really acquired his taste. In all phases of his career, he has proven himself one of the most, if not the most, deft American designers at using European antiques. He knows history and loves to use it. That said, he acknowledges that his style has lately “gotten bolder and crazier—and maybe happier.”
His prescription for using antiques is simple: 1. Live with them and don’t be scared. 2. Put them next to something modern. Repeat. 3. Showrooms only get you so far. Be willing to hunt through auctions to find just the right thing waiting to be reborn. “Out of all these sales,” Sills says, “you’re lucky to find two or three things.” A slog for sure.
But worth it: The suite of chairs in the dining room is a good example. They came from the 2017 Paris sale of Marjorie Post’s daughter Eleanor Post Close (Dina Merrill’s older half sister—and onetime wife of Preston Sturges). If ever there were a collection that expressed a kind of gilded, arcane French grandeur—one of zero relevance to the way any young family today wants to live—this is the one. But here they are, chic and bleached and looking mighty hip paired with cotton paisleys and a white Syrie Maugham–esque rug. “Those chairs were dark walnut,” Sills says. “No one saw the potential.”
Was anything suggested too outré? “Stephen wanted to strip our parquet de Versailles floors and stain them light gray,” the wife says with a laugh. “We said, ‘That’s not going to happen.’”
As for Sills, he admits that when he first saw the tobacco grisaille murals destined for the dining room on a visit to the artist’s studio, he thought they were beautiful but too dark. “I took a dry brush, mixed some white, and started lightening the background,” he says. “I did enough damage that I knew she’d have to paint the whole thing over.”
I asked the homeowner if the shoe fits—in other words, whether all this sophistication feels like home. “It does feel like us,” she says. “Perhaps the most sophisticated version of us.”
As for the story about their young daughter catching him in the act of painting their fireplace, Sills confirms its truth—and adds a missing chapter. “She’s adorable! She wanted to paint, and I let her paint,” he admits. “I needed to bond with her.”
Says the man who spends his life pursuing and arranging beautiful objects: “There’s nothing more beautiful than a beautiful child.” Also true: A decorator is never alone.
This story originally appeared in the October 2020 issue of ELLE Decor. SUBSCRIBE